Learning selflessness - focus on the needs of all others and your selfishness turns into selflessness

True divine love requires a perfection in selflessness as selfishness destroys any relationship and love

One day very long before achieving oneness with God and before true love even starts to flow - all humans will learn true divine selflessness. Today may be just the right day to start this essential lesson.

Learning selflessness is very easy. Can be learned even by babies because most animals master it already in extreme perfection - such as ants, honey bees, and most other animals. Humans are some of the very last species still to learn selflessness in all creation !!! The benefits of true selflessness are truly infinite - even in a mathematical or physical sense.

True love always starts flowing when developing and practicing selflessness

True divine selflessness results in an instant end of all difference between poor and rich, weak and mighty, old and young, .. True divine selflessness creates eternal and infinite benefits for all involved !

The steps to learn are very simple, however require strict application over an very extended period of time far beyond one lifetime to be your true and absolute nature. However if you start today - in a few weeks or month you may already feel and realize the first true benefits in your inner and outer life as well.

Easy steps to learn and apply true selflessness in your life

There is but one true way to learn, practice and proof divine selflessness - here the simple steps for your own practice to learn selflessness in all situations of your life:

  1. always focus only on the wellbeing of all others
  2. when family members want to eat - always let ALL others first select their most preferred food - then take whatever is left for you
  3. always give the full plate to all others first and then take whatever they leave you - if nothing is left - refill the plate and offer it again to your family members until all are fully happy and full first
  4. only focus on the wellbeing of your partner in all you ever do - never occupy your mind with your own needs or wishes
  5. when you make gifts to others - always give in such abundance to allow them to always first share in abundance with their family and friends or poor ones as well
  6. when you receive a gift always offer it to your family and friends to share and take for you whatever is left
  7. when you have a family or are in a group and decide what to do - always let OTHERS chose their most preferred activity and support them in fully enjoying what they all love to do
  8. when you have a delicious food - always offer it to others and ask them if they would love to have some - if they eat all - get more for them until all are happy and take whatever is left for you - if nothing is left - be happy with nothing and feed your heart with the happiness you have created in OTHERS - look at their happy smile and be happy !
  9. when you have an amount of money after paying all the really basic needs - share with those who have nothing or far less and take for you whatever is left after sharing.
  10. when you want to be more happy - focus more on creating happiness in others and you receive all missed happiness in your life by looking and enjoying a happy surrounding
  11. when you realize there are many needs and limited resources - always fulfill the needs of all others first
  12. always clean up your own life and surrender a fully healed body, heart, mind and soul to others when entering a relationship
  13. when having a selection of things to share - always offer the most valuable, the best and nicest or most delicious things to others
  14. when asking for salary - always ask for a honest salary - never for a precise amount. Always allow ALL others in same situations or positions to have equal or greater salary than you - never less than you. Leave the assessment of YOUR qualification to others when assessing your salary.
  15. when receiving surprising visitors always offer your meal to them first and assure you have enough for all - make sure you always have sufficient quantity of good quality food available to share with anyone visiting you.
  16. be always ready to share any amount of time needed by others whenever they need
  17. your children, your partner, your entire family, relatives, neighborhood, village, country and planet - finally all creation - always should be first and you last ! This results in dropping any clan- or family-thinking or patriotism as a reflection of minor or hidden forms of selfishness.
  18. never force others to eat what you prepare - but prepare the food they all love - be ready to prepare for each one a separate meal made to order !
  19. when you have employees - always think of the overall wellbeing of all your employees first
  20. when you have a housemaid or helper in your home - always treat them like your older brother or sister - with love and dignity, like any other beloved family member.
  21. always afford the very best for all others
  22. when several task need to be done - always select the dirtiest, most dangerous or hardest job for yourself first - leaving all the better jobs to all others
  23. always strive for perfection in all you do - offering the best possible work and services to as many as needed
  24. always be happy with your life and with whatever you are offered by others - whenever you are sure to give your very best possible you are receiving exactly what ever you need for your greatest possible spiritual benefit.
  25. to proof selflessness, always be ready to physically and/or spiritually bow to the feet of all creation - here on earth and beyond - eternally
  26. the happiness of all others including God's happiness should be your true and only goal in all action or decisions

such simple are the rules to turn any selfishness into true divine selflessness and easy to follow by all - there is no need to ever get into debts for others - but sometimes a need to work a little more to have more to give or share or to have better quality of love and services to share with all creation !

If however you practice selflessness only for the infinite and eternal benefits - then you are practicing true advanced selfishness rather than true loving divine selflessness. When you have any doubt about what to do in a particular situation or how to act - then always think of what you love to receive as treatment or service in that particular situation. Always do with love and full devotion what you do

What are the benefits of true eternal selflessness ?

When you have loved all, shared with all, spoiled all, died for all, fed all, made all happy, helped all to grow strong and find into eternal and absolute freedom, .. for thousands and more years, then one day billions may but love you with all their love - billions of different ways of loving you - eternally !

God is love - so is Jesus - Jesus Christ - Jesus of Nazareth - Jesus, son of God God is Love

Only true Love can make truly happy

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