You love me - Learn to accept love from others
part 1 "You love me"
Part 1 - Baby love
Learning to accept love from others - from ANYONE and from ALL is equally important than saying "I love you". the art is to recognize the near infinite number of different ways others practice to tell YOU or show you THEIR love is what we all need to learn and practice again.
if you reject part of their love - then YOU are an active factor of emotional AND spiritual stress for others. if you manage to reject most of other peoples love - then it would be MUCH better for all others to be WITHOUT YOU as it is much easier to spiritually grow without additional know stress-factors. if you happen to have a partner who repeatedly or near permanently rejects many of YOUR ways of showing and proving YOUR love - TALK to him - seriously and firm, if nothing changes, then it is time for immediate divorce.
every child of God has a divine right to be able to GIVE love in as many different ways as God OR you created. continuously, every day, every hour, eternally. including physical / sexual love and all varieties of direct love between 2 partners. every child of God has a divine right to RECEIVE love in many different ways - ever-changing ways - every day.
rejected love is one of the very worst spiritual situation that EVER can or could happen to anyone in God's entire creation. hence learn to recognize ALL different ways others use to tell you "I love you" or to show it or make you feel their love.
friends, family members, your children, your employer, your employees, neighbors and anyone else may have a deep desire to show YOU their love and it is YOUR DIVINE DUTY to learn to accept THEIR full love.
different people have many different ways expressing love. basically anyone who wants to talk to or with you, who wants or seeks your company may do so to seek an exchange of love in either way or both directions. exchange of love may start in a very powerful way in the very earliest childhood. here a few examples how OTHERS may express THEIR love for YOU:
- a baby loves breastfeeding - that is first a receiving part - the baby RECEIVES milk from mother and included WITH the direct flow of milk there is a direct and proportional FLOW of metaphysical LOVE from the "bosom-chakra". the baby ACCEPTING milk from mama says "I love you" by accepting mother-milk. after feeding the baby may want to sleep skin to skin at the bosom - to enjoy the FLOW of metaphysical love that keeps on flowing. it enjoys mothers aura and love and by ENJOYING mother's skin to skin contact shows his love for mama.
- if baby rejects your milk directly from your bosom - then your love is possessive or selfish - selfish love is hard and painful to accept or digest and baby may prefer to live WITHOUT your love rather than with selfish or possessive love.
- a few weeks later a baby may smile and a smile is an expression of happiness. happiness occurs when baby receives
love from mother AND mothers fully absorbs all love from baby. a baby - remember that - is AN ADULT SOUL using a small and growing physical body that FIRST needs physically to adapt to the capabilities and potential of that soul. whatever the reason for an incarnation - the baby usually can LOVE - give AND receive - more and better than most parents. love is silent. a smile may be accompanied by a huge flow of love from heart to heart from soul to soul.
- a baby wants to be hugged - but it also wants to hug mother, father, sisters, friends and any loving person. when YOU establish direct body to body - even more - skin to skin contact, then every normal baby is fully open for the FREE flow of love in both directions - simultaneously. if you have "no time" for baby and give it away to a baby sitter, then you reject baby's love and create spiritual DAMAGE to that baby !
- the more time you spent face to face, skin to skin with your baby, the more you learn to appreciate the many different ways of giving love as well as receiving love from the baby.
- baby wants to communicate with you - to tell you sweet loving words - but you are listening with your ears instead of using your MIND and heard. baby can communicate in a telepathic way during pregnancy and after - just as easily as YOU can speak words. a newborn wants to make sure YOU know how much baby loves YOU and that baby most likely came to HELP YOU, to give LOVE to you, to be your little sunshine here on earth in your heart.
- baby grows up and starts crawling around and experience this "funny" and very dark planet. baby tries every energy it can see or feel. and whenever baby sees something special it brings you that special piece to show YOU "I love you" in different ways.
- baby may bring you some beetles, some gravel stones, minerals, flowers, ... ! baby KNOWS what is good for YOU - do YOU know what is good for YOU? can YOU FEEL energy ?? can you feel the energy of minerals or flowers or trees ??? are you fully aware of the energy of a butterfly or a glow worm for example ??? can you instantly feel the healing effect on your aura and physical body any flower brought to you by your children ???
- children grow up with an open heart - open for angels, for God and most metaphysical aspects of earthly life. children can feel the aura of humans and animals near by. and children often are searching for small objects that appear nice to them and bring them to you - as a gift of love just for you. it is their way of saying "I love you".
- later on baby starts to make drawings and gives them to mama, papa and friends. as a gift of love.
- and still later baby is a small child and learns to talk and SING - and sometimes sings just for you. baby wants to be WITH you even as it grows up. the growing up baby wants to share, to help, to WORK WITH you whatever you work - baby wants to share and help you. cleaning, washing, gardening, mechanical work, carpenter work, it is the children's ways of showing their love - being WITH you - near you - where ever you are, what ever you do. it is their divine birth right.
- if whatever YOU do is TOO "dangerous" or "wrong" for baby or child - then it also is TOO dangerous or "wrong" for YOU.
- babies and children love to play WITH YOU - rather than with toys - with you means with your body ! fathers are to be strong and YOU are the living toy for your children - by accepting YOU as their playmate of first choice - specially during the first several years of an incarnation - baby tells you "I love you more than anything else - just YOU - no toys of plastic, wood or metal ever can replace YOUR skin to skin body to body love and presence. it is YOUR having time for them that shows them that YOU are open to give AND receive LOVE.
- and if after hours of wild or sweet playing WITH you, they become tired and need a nap - they again show you one more times their appreciation of YOUR love and YOUR aura by hugging you and falling asleep IN YOUR ARMS !
- angel babies always want to fall asleep IN YOUR ARMS as well as wake up in your arms.
do you realize the many ways YOUR children around you are using to show their love to you ? are you always saying YES to EVERY such occasion or do you say NO sometimes or often ?
any damage caused by YOUR rejection of baby's love or children's love needs to be healed by someone BEFORE a child becomes mature for a partnership. such healing often takes more than an entire incarnation - that means many children have selected a situation that was so hard and empty of love that they have a "broken" heart beyond the actual incarnation, while others may need many years or decades beyond childhood until they become ready for a mutual love within a partnership.
look at the high percentage of divorce and look at all the NON-divorced partnerships which are prohibited to divorce because their culture or law prohibits divorce. look at all the partnerships and families with drug and / or alcohol problems. all these are children having grown up in a environment and society empty of love - they have neither received all the love they deserved AND NEEDED nor were they allowed and given a chance to GIVE all the love they WANTED to give.
if a baby or child WANTS to be near you, WITH you - it is the first way of saying "I love you". because
loving to be WITH or NEAR you also means:
- I love your love
- I love your aura
- I love your smile
- I love your face
- your energy
- i love what you have to offer in your heart
- I am HUNGRY for YOUR love, all kind of love YOU have to give me - your baby !
- my hunger for YOUR LOVE, for your presence, shall show YOU how valuable YOUR love is - for me as well as in general to ALL mankind AND to God. as YOUR LOVE expressed in your time you share WITH me is the single most valuable you ever have to offer - to me as well as to ALL and to God !!!
.... but I am always aware that YOU need love - and me - your baby - I am willing to GIVE you all my love - to smile at you, to hug you, to kiss you, to touch you, to caress you, to bring you flowers, and plants, and many many smaller or larger objects to show AND PROOF YOU my love - as much as you need.
the more YOU are ready for most direct exchange of love - skin to skin, eyes to eyes, heart to heart and soul to soul - the more happy all. baby is ready for most direct and most efficient love !! always !!! are YOU ready to accept direct efficient love from your baby and children ? or do you attempt to SUBSTITUTE YOUR direct love with TOYS, sweets and material goods rather than with YOUR time that allows YOU free flow of love - giving and receiving love requires TIME together without any interference by TV or other distractions - just YOU and baby !
Other directly related chapters are:
newsletters: "I love you" - part 1 |
"I love you" - part 2 |
"I love you" - part 3
learn to accept love - part 2 |
learn to accept love - part 3
chapters: Sexuality on your way to God |
The spiritual meaning of oral sex
Additional helpful texts, love tests and exercises can be found in the spiritual lessons for life and microletters section with love test or help to gain feedback about your very own love and sexuality related problems with the goal of saving partnership or saving marriages and helping to make your life more enjoyable and more happy.
with love and divine bliss
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