[Christmas preparation]Received Mon, 20 Dec 2004 18:03:20 PHT

Christmas gifts for separated spouse - when you think about gifts for your separated spouse - you and your spouse are still in love - hence give all your love - give yourself to your separated spouse

Christmas gifts for separated spouse - when you think about gifts for
your separated spouse - you and your spouse are still in love - hence
give all your love - give yourself to your separated spouse


today a separated husband was searching for
Christmas gifts for separated spouse

to be able to think about making gifts to a separated spouse - husband
or wife - requires true love inside the one thinking about giving

it also requires potential readiness to receive from the other partner
nobody can really think about giving to somebody else if that other
person would be fully closed in her / his heart !!!

to be able to think or feel about giving - requires the opening of the
potential recipient. of course we have many couples separated in hatred
and fighting - looking for years to gain distance and be left in peace ...
usually none of both ever thinks of giving or making gifts of love to
the other after separation or after divorce

however

there are also many husband - wife who are separated or divorced and
still truly love each other.
so why are they separated or divorced ?
because there was nobody to help them finding together
there was no one being example of how to solve problems with love

in today's world we have mostly orphans .. children having physical
parents may be orphans as well
being parent - being father or mother means far more than just cooking
food, washing laundry or paying school
it means being a living loving sexy example of being a loving partner
with father - mother
if - and only if BOTH - mother and father are sweet, truly loving sexy
partners for each others
and live it all the years of growing up

then only can children see how to love and even more importantly how to
dissolve in love whenever a clouds starts to darken or endanger the true
love between both.

who of all has such parents ???
less than 1 % of all global population at best ...


hence in reality almost all are orphans - children without truly loving
father and mother
children who had adults paying and supporting them
without ever showing them to be male or female in real life

hence

whenever in the life of such children in their adult life a sexual
problem occurs
they are helplessly lost
unless they have truly loving friends to replace the parents
or unless they have their own love and relationship counselor who is
truly experienced in solving problems in a loving way.

if no one else can be counselor - at home it always is God
here on earth ...
God as well can be your counselor and helper
all you have to do is to pray together and ask for divine help to heal
your marriage

see also the chapter about
Christmas gifts for her or him

if you think - even remotely - about making a gift for a separated spouse
you may as well give the single most valuable
YOU
with all your love - from the bottom of your heart
with a FULL YES
for ever and ever !!!

anything else you have tried to give before
anything else but you would be too little and leading to another separation
hence it is time to give all - do all - fulfill all wishes of your
separated spouse
one single time you may get another chance
one night and one day
to prove your love
and then stay together for ever
with all your love
and never again any excuses or "later" or "may be"

all your love
or nothing at all

to fall in love is like to dive from a diving board
there never is a little diving or little falling
either you fall - and will be in love
or you leave it and remain single until ready to fully and instantly
fall in love

love and bliss

hans

Christmas

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