relationship problem, any advice appreciated...please take a look and long read

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asu101 registered
at 09/06/2007, 00:10:19

I am from CA and I currently go to arizona state and right now I am having difficulty fitting in. I have friends now but I feel as though I grow to dislike this place. everyday I feel regret for coming here. I have a girlfriend and she chose hawaii. we have to wait about 4 months till we see each other again for a month then back to school.I feel as though I should have gone there. all I ever do is think about her. she says she loves me, but I feel like I lose her everyday. she says she thinks about me and that everything reminds her of me. I just feel worried that i'm going to just be another guy in her past. we have been dating for about 1 1/2 years now and feel we have a strong connection. we almost broke it off but just couldn't bear to think of being separated from each other. there was a guy friend she had who thought she would be good to have a relationship with and probably be the one, but she told him that she wants to be friends and she has someone she loves back home. I do see though that she seems happy in hawaii. I want to transfer out to possibly go out there. my problem is I don't want to ruin her relationship with her friends. I don't want to go there and just end up hurting what we have either. I really don't like the school I am currently going into either. she has sort of pushed for me to transfer there. it does have the major I am currently in there. I feel like that is the environment for me rather than here where its party all the time. I feel as though I have a problem because I think about her nonstop. and since I don't have any close friends to hang out with to get her out of my mind,i just stay in my dorm. when ever I hear the phone ring or someone sign on on aim, I always check if its her and hope it is. it just seems like I have an obsession now. what do you guys think, what do you guys suggest. sorry for the long read...any help appreciated

Replies To This Message:

just do it Corey 0 Thu, Sep 06, 2007, 10:46:36
God Love A man is like a tree - a man first needs to grow big and strong to supply and provide before being ready to fall forlink hans 0 Thu, Sep 06, 2007, 13:32:48
God Love Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get ;) Jiggo 0 Thu, Sep 27, 2007, 17:58

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