|To lie is to betray - to pretend to love is to betray self and partner|
To lie is to betray - to pretend to love is to betray self and partner
after all the lies or pretending to love you hopefully feel how it is inside you and hopefully you realize the importance of true love, of truthfulness toward self and partner from the very first second.
In a separation situation as yours you will see the true being of a person.
a truly loving person always is strong and hence a strong person never NEEDS someone but loves that one.
either all and full love from the very first seconds and minutes and onward day after day week after week - full and all love all the time
ego game is betrayal of your own true needs as well as betrayal of the true needs of the wrong partner you are together.
if a girl - or a man - fails to make oral sex WITHOUT ever being ask to do so from the very first day onward - then that person lacks true readiness to love and to make happy.
after one party decides to leave - the other one making such promises like giving oral sex is an empty promise - empty of true love, empty of the magic of true love.
mankind is made for ONE man having ONE girl
leave your wrong partner at any cost of tears!
"... I tell her I love her again and again. Though I know in the deep of my heart that I don't love her,..."
to feel guilty is of no benefit to you or her - it simply shows and proves you that you made substantial mistakes by pretending to love someone without really feeling that magic true love for that one.
a love relationship is like a car driving on a road
if either the car is too weak or the road too rough
so does a mis-matching relationship
learn from your mistakes for your future
never partner up for pity or with a lost one who needs you or a crying girl
missing a person proves that the one who misses was weak and depending on the other. true lovers BOTH need to be strong enough to live on their own, earn their living on their own and learn how to be happy on their own before being mature to partner up with another persons for life. a strong one never needs, never misses,
unconditional love never cries, unconditional love IS - from the beginning and without limits !! all your wrong partner shows so far is ego game and nothing more.
when you part - then part in friendship but for good without seeing her for a long time. distance helps to heal and to get clear in mind and heart. after many months or years both are ready to start a new love relationship with the right one of the waiting period has been used to understand all made mistakes of all previous relationships and use those mistakes to grow stronger and clearer in the heart for future new relationship.
It's Christmas time - time to clear all past mistakes, time to part and restart a new life, time to clean up your heart and be ready for true love. The sooner you part - the sooner you will be free for a truly loving and happy making new relationship.
your new friend may disappear - she simply may have been a spiritual catalyst to get you OUT of a totally wrong relationship - to help you to be free again and to realize all made mistakes ...
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